Speak the Truth in Love and Mercy


 
"Do not accept anything as love which lacks truth.” - St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross

We hear a wonderful promise from Jesus in today’s Gospel: our prayers call down God’s presence with us; even if just two of us agree about anything for which we are to pray, it will be granted. But today’s readings also remind us that we bear responsibility for one another. We are linked, morally and spiritually. If we see another person engaging in sinful behavior, we have a moral obligation to speak out in truth and mercy to help guide that person back into communion with God and the Church.
And that’s difficult. It’s especially hard to speak out against many of the socially acceptable sins of this generation. We risk being called judgmental, hypocritical, even hateful. But just as the Lord warns the prophet Ezekiel and Jesus warns the disciples, we are also warned that keeping silent risks both the soul of the person committing the sin and our own soul as well.
Is there something we’ve witnessed in our own circle of family and friends that we have failed to speak out about? Do we know someone whose marriage needs to be convalidated, or someone who is involved in an adulterous or immoral relationship? Are we aware of an incident of serious sin that is unconfessed? We all have someone in our lives that may need gentle guidance back to God. Jesus tells us to first speak to that person privately. Let them know the doors of mercy are wide open for their reconciliation. If they do not respond, ask a priest for his advice and intervention.
Doing everything you can to save the lives of those you love is not being judgmental or hateful, but is true mercy. And it is our obligation as Catholics. Do not be afraid to speak the truth in love and mercy, always and everywhere.
 
 

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